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[IP] Being realistic about busybodies
I hear you. I just started pumping after seeking approval for one since Spring. My boss, despite all I've talked about it and what it will mean for my management, still thinks this is a monitor and/or a cure -- that I won't have any more BG problems (especially on company time) ever again. She don't listen well. She also thinks I need insulin when I go low and shouldn't be eating sugar. (sigh).
Lots of other people don't listen well and they don't think before they open their mouth. I have a very few people in this life who I discuss BG management with.
I have the benefit of being the second generation diabetic in my family, so growing up I saw how my mother was treated way before I had to deal with "helpful" comments myself. My dad's family is terrible in their thoughtlessness. From nasty comments about what she should/not be doing/eating, to showing up hours late for sit-down meals at our house, she's had to deal and be gracious about it.
"I'm sorry, we have other plans" didn't work when you were turning down invitations? Taking the therapy dogs to those who could use a visit sounds like a very worthwhile way to spend the day. You might try asking those who take a "kindly interest" in your BGs how they are managing their personal debt, but that could be going a bit far to make your point. <g>
It's tough, but do what you feel is best for you. I wish you the best of luck in dealing.
Date: Tue, 20 Nov 2001 18:46:41 -0500
From: "Leann Marcucci" <email @ redacted>
Subject: [IP] being realistic....???
i'm going to apologize in advance because this is going to be a rant, but you guys are the only ones i can think of who would understand. i am SO not looking forward to the holidays. i mean, i have had dreams all
week long about getting the implantable , closed loop pump ever since i read that email from here.:) i will be 32 in 2005 (the soonest it could go on the market) and i am not patient! lol! here's how i feel.... i have been dx'd for one year now. last thanksgiving/xmas, i didn't go to any dinners , any parties, any anything because i knew i didn't want to have to face the food challenge in front of everyone. i also came down with meniere's (constant vertigo) so i had a socialy allowable excuse to stay away.
this year, i have turned down 6 thanksgiving dinner invitations. my husband of 6 1/2 years and i will happily eat dinner at home, then take our therapy
dogs to the nursing home. sounds perfectly reasonable, right? everyone is wondering why i don't want to come to all of their parties. " well, it's been a year now. don't you know how to eat yet? when are you going to learn how to work that thing??!!" (meaning the pump) well, i have had 26 years of eating as much cheescake as i want! i have had 26 years of not even thinking
about how many cups of green beans i eat at thanksgiving dinner! and i have had 1 year of EVERYONE asking me what my numbers are after eating. yes, i'm
very happy they actually understand what i have to do, but the PRESSURE! if i'm over 150 i get the "LOOK". like i went high on purpose! I"M STILL LEARNING HOW TO EAT ! have any of you figured all this out in a year?? am i really that slow and dumb? does this pressure to get it all right ever go away?
sorry for ranting.....
thanks for reading...
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