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Re: [IP] Ann Landers



To me Dignity is testing, shooting, etc. discretely in public and too me that is
what I've heard people saying in there messages, it's unfortunate you missed
that.

email @ redacted wrote:

>         I'm having a hard time with all this apparent selfishness and
> inconsideration being put forth by so many of the members of this list.  It
> really is selfishness isn't it?   It has nothing to do with educating the
> rest of the world about the problems we diabetics face each day.  Indeed,
> putting syringes and bleeding fingers on restaurant tables is hardly an
> effective way to educate the masses!  Why make someone look away or have
> them faint if you want to teach?   To me it boils down to a question of
> human dignity.  When my sister-in -law was dying of breast cancer (at age
> 49) a few years ago, I was constantly amazed at the dignity with which she
> handled her certain death.   She never forced her illness on others, never
> made them feel guilty for their health, never walked in public with her
> bald head, and always was involved with cancer education activities.  My
> wife and I and our 4 daughters (including the one with cerebral palsy)
> still run each year the the Komen race for the cure.   I'm not sure I could
> have handled her situation in so dignified a manner.    Heather, I can't
> remember how often during her year and half illness I would truly give
> thanks that I was in fact "blessed" with just diabetes, a disease that I
> have been able to manage for 40 years.  Let's work toward educating the
> public about diabetes.  Shocking, scaring, or otherwise forcing ourselves
> in their faces is surely not the way to do it.
> -wm
>
> <<<<<It's making me so angry to hear about how offensive we are to people who
> become faint at the sight of blood or needles.  I used to be one of those
> people... and then I got diabetes.  I think "respect" is the operative
> word here.  Those people should be glad they don't have to be the one
> using the needle, and learn to look away when they come into contact with
> a diabetic testing themselves -- which anyway, how often does that
> happen?  How many diabetics do you notice every day, and how often do
> they happen to be checking their sugar?
>         As Sara said, I will test wherever and whenever I want, and when my
> friends look away because they think it's "gross," fine.  I didn't invent
> the needle.  It's a part of everyday life.. of flu shots, taking blood,
> giving life... and all these queasy people are going to have to deal with
> it sooner or later at their own doctor's office anyway.  I will not nurse
> their phobias.
> Miranda >>>>>>
> <<<<<<<<If people faint at the site the site of blood, then they should
> have any
> opportunity to look away.  Some people say they are offended by seeing
> dark skin on someone -- How closed minded can people get.  What if
> someone doesn't like to look at wheelchairs, or a brace, or glasses?. .
> . These things help people live, just as insulin injections or pumps,
> and bg testing help people "blessed" with diabetes live.
> Heather,  age 17 dx'd age5 pumping 1 year>>>>>>>>>
>
> _____________________
> -Wayne
>
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