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> I was wondering how many of us pumpers are smokers?
Not me...never had a butt in my mouth even...not even for a play!!
> told me point blank, that I will not live to see my kids married,
That was kind of extreme in my opinion. Yes, we all know smoking is bad for
us, especially us as diabetics, it constricts our already prone to problem
arteries and a whole myriad of other problems, but that was just plain ugly!
Scare tactics have never worked on me...negative reinforcement doesn't work
on little kids and plain old being mean usually doesnt work...obviously he
forgot the old adage you can get more flys with honey than you can with salt
or however the hell it goes
Having never smoked, I can offer no valid suggestions, but I do know, having
my OWN bad habits, NO ONE CAN *MAKE* YOU DO IT...you have to make the choice
and stick to it. It is just like making the choice, or not making the
choice, to test your blood sugar, or stay on a healthy diet, or go to the
gym, or not speed whenn you rent a convertible...sure - there is probably an
addiction thing involved with cigarettes, but we all have bad habits that are
tough to break....you can only do it for yourself...even thinking about
missing your kids marriage won't work...what if they turn out to be
undesirables like me - can you imagine if my mom HAD quit smoking 20 years
ago following a threat like one your doc gave you??...boy would she be pissed
at me today...healthier, sure, but god, trying to live THAT down...[begin
whiny voice] "i quit smokng for you...when are you going to give me some
grandkids??" to which I reply...she better watch it or I WILL give her some,
and not get married and dump them on her to raise, while I go galivanting off
to europe, then SEE who has the last laugh...(kidding)
ANYWAY...i am sure you know about nicorette and the patch and zyban and all
those things...gotta find one that works for you, and doctors should HELP
here, not threaten. Maybe your putz could recommend a prescription or
therapy rather than try to scare you! But, still the first step is taking
the responsibility and making the choice to get better!
> Please don't yell at me either, I have heard it all.
i am not, and never would...dones't work with the people I love (mom and dad)
and sure won't work with a virtual stranger!
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