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Re: [IP] People (men) SUCK

About the men suck thing, I was engaged to be married and had been with the
guy for 6 years. Then 3 months before the wedding I was diagnosed diabetic,
1 month before we were to be hitched, he told me I had changed and diabetes
had made me cold and he did not want to be with some one sick. I completely
understand your anger, to think of him still makes me mad, and it has been 5
years. Sorry for jerks.... Windee
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Sent: Monday, June 30, 2003 4:36 PM
Subject: [IP] People (men) SUCK

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> Pardon the stereotypical generalization cuz you KNOW I don't do that often
>  (ie medical professionals SUCK...health insurance SUCKS...diabetes
> SUCKS...etc.)
> but this one takes the freaking 4 layer cake with chocolate frosting...
> I met this guy...we went out for coffee, we went out to dinner, we went on
> 4 hour hike (before the place was torched into oblivion this past week).
> was very open about testing and he seemed totally into it...really
>  interested...asked lots of questions.....then I never heard from him. So,
> stupidly, I sent
> him an email and asked what was up - was he ok, did he not want to see me
> anymore, whatever
> He wrote back that it was DIABETES he did not want to deal with.  here is
> quote from his email:
> > (hope this doesn't sound too selfish here...) I'm just not wanting to
> > more of that into my life - not to mention I really don't want to have
> > "caretaker" character in a relationship (even though, as we know, you
>  > confident in taking "care" of yourself.) That's it - hopefully this
> hurt
> > your feelings, make you angry, etc.  I think/hope you understand.
> and here is what I wrote back.....
> In a supreme effort of restraint, and not wanting to write back a
> emotional response, I have been thinking about your letter for a while.
> has not healed me.
> Yes it is selfish, Yes it hurts my feelings, yes it makes me angry, and
yes I
> understand - you are a total jerk!  Forgive you for it?  probably not.  I
> not looking for, nor do I need or want, a caretaker.  I certainly hope
>  you DO find your dream girl, that she doesn't step off a curb the next
day, get
> hit by a truck and need a ventilator, and a caretaker, for the rest of
> life...even worse...I hope it never happens to you!
> best of luck
> SO...when you read July's Diabetes Interivew and learn all about my sexual
> escapades, you can REST assured, that it is all PAST tense......
> Sara
> Smarty Pants Arizona (SSPAZ)
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