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Re: [IP] People (men) SUCK

Sara, i think you got lucky as already mentioned. Be assured there are many
more fish in the sea
than this jerk.


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>In a message dated 06/30/2003 4:37:22 PM Eastern Daylight Time, 
>email @ redacted writes:
>> Pardon the stereotypical generalization cuz you KNOW I don't do that often 
>> (ie medical professionals SUCK...health insurance SUCKS...diabetes
>> SUCKS...etc.)
>> but this one takes the freaking 4 layer cake with chocolate frosting...
>> I met this guy...we went out for coffee, we went out to dinner, we went
on a 
>> 4 hour hike (before the place was torched into oblivion this past week).
>> was very open about testing and he seemed totally into it...really 
>> interested...asked lots of questions.....then I never heard from him. So,
>> stupidly, I sent
>> him an email and asked what was up - was he ok, did he not want to see me 
>> anymore, whatever
>> He wrote back that it was DIABETES he did not want to deal with.  here
is a 
>> quote from his email:
>> >(hope this doesn't sound too selfish here...) I'm just not wanting to add 
>> >more of that into my life - not to mention I really don't want to have
>> >"caretaker" character in a relationship (even though, as we know, you
>> >confident in taking "care" of yourself.) That's it - hopefully this
>> hurt
>> >your feelings, make you angry, etc.  I think/hope you understand.
>> and here is what I wrote back.....
>> In a supreme effort of restraint, and not wanting to write back a
>> emotional response, I have been thinking about your letter for a while.  
>> Time 
>> has not healed me.  
>> Yes it is selfish, Yes it hurts my feelings, yes it makes me angry, and
>> I 
>> understand - you are a total jerk!  Forgive you for it?  probably not.
I am 
>> not looking for, nor do I need or want, a caretaker.  I certainly hope
>> you DO find your dream girl, that she doesn't step off a curb the next
>> get
>> hit by a truck and need a ventilator, and a caretaker, for the rest of
>> life...even worse...I hope it never happens to you!  
>> best of luck
>> SO...when you read July's Diabetes Interivew and learn all about my sexual 
>> escapades, you can REST assured, that it is all PAST tense......
>> Sara 
>Sara I am sure you will meet one of those suckers down the road who will be 
> glad to be your care giver late in life. That is the nature of the male I
>be glad you discovered he is a JERK. I may be in AZ this fall I will sent
>a note and take you out to dinner Roger C
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