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Re: [IP] What not to say to a kid - the parent's perspective

>From: "John Bowen and Nancy Morgan" <email @ redacted>
>Reply-To: email @ redacted
>To: "Insulin Pumpers" <email @ redacted>
>Subject: [IP] What not to say to a kid - the parent's perspective
>Date: Wed, 14 Jul 1999 16:19:43 -0400
>Thanks, Sherry, for acknowledging that your parents weren't just being a
>pain, they were actually trying to look after you, and were usually right
>about what you needed to do.  I read some of the posts with guilt, because
>I've said a whole lot of those things to Jenna, but I just want her to be
>healthy.  At 10, she's not very rebellious yet, but I guess it will  
>But here's my question.  We started teaching Jenna the principles of tight
>control since she was diagnosed at 8 yo.  Lord knows, she has plenty of
>sugars that are out of target range, and I don't scold her at all for that,
>but I do make her tell me what we need to do about it, ie, develop an 
>plan.  I think she now has internalized the message that we're always
>shooting for target range.  But she has two friends, 1 a year older and 1 a
>year younger than her, who were diagnosed as toddlers, and both on MDI 
>this year.  Both of them regularly have sugars in the 200-400 range, and
>they just don't see a problem with that.  They have come to expect and
>accept poor control over the years.  Interestingly, neither of their 
>have improved from the 8-9 range that they were pre-pump.  Do those of you
>who have done battle with DM since childhood think that the expectations
>your parents set helped  you to control your diabetes later in life
>(especially after "rebellion" was over)?  As St. Paul said, "Train up a
>child in the ways he should go..."
>I hope I am doing more right than wrong for Jenna, because I love her so
>much.   And I hope all of you that remember the things your parents said
>know that they probably did it out of love, too.
>Nancy Morgan, Jenna's mom
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