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Re: [IP] Spoiling
Natalie Sera's e-mail has said exactly what I have been ineffective at saying
And for those of you questioning my Mother's child-rearing skills...she
raised 2 VERY sick kids (me with my diabetes and my brother with something
that NONE of you could possible understand that involved those 'cutting off
the arm volunteers' that someone spoke of such as seeing every MD at the
Cleveland Clinic's dermatology dept., to going to both Columbia Presbyterian
and Boston's Eye & Ear Institute just to name of few,) and never once used
either of diseases to gain special privileges or to tell us that we were
'special.' She taught us responsibility for our diagnosis and when we both
went off to college OUT OF STATE we never questioned who would take care of
use when we were away from her. Never once during college did I ever worry
'what if Mom's not here.'
Teach your kids that responsibility and perhaps they will teach their peers
by demonstration of the same.
Roxanne Villanueva RD, LD
IDDM X 18+ years, Pumping since 1/4/1995.
(First with Disetronic, now with MM 508 and much happier!)
And remember...Diabetics are naturally sweet!
e-mail: email @ redacted
'Diabetes is a disease of complications waiting for them to happen.' - - -
Mary Tyler Moore
In a message dated 4/4/2001 10:15:57 AM Eastern Daylight Time,
email @ redacted writes:
> I think Sylvia has hit on an extremely important point. Sure, I wish I
> could be spoiled a bit too -- I'm dealing with diabetes on my own -- I
> have NO ONE to help me if I get in trouble, and if I pass out, I stay
> there until I wake up or until someone comes to investigate the stink
> emanating from my house.
> But, parents should also take seriously the part about diabetic kids
> wanting to be treated just like everyone else.
> ANY 3 year old could get cranky and have tantrums (or pass out) while
> waiting in the hot lines at Disneyland. Does that mean that all toddlers
> should go to the head of the line? Or does it mean that a 3-year old is
> actually too young to really enjoy Disneyland? Or that if your child has
> diabetes, you need to be on your toes and test more often??
> During my 6 years working with both mentally and physically disabled,
> one of the things most frequently said by coworkers (out of hearing of
> the clients or parents, of course!) was that emotional maturation STOPS
> the day the disability occurs.
> I think any parent of a chronically ill or disabled child should spend a
> lot of time thinking about that one.
> Do you want to raise a child who wallows in "Poor me, I deserve to be
> coddled because I have diabetes" or do you want one who says "Diabetes
> is a major pain in the butt, but I can do anything anyone else can!"?
> The dilemma that most often presents itself in the case of diabetes is
> you can't have your cake and eat it too. If the diabetic goes to the
> head of the line because they might pass out, where do they get off
> saying they want to get drivers' licenses, pilot's licenses and scuba
> A diabetic DOES need accommodations where necessary -- so a rule against
> eating in the classroom, for example, needs to be bent, but not ALL
> rules have to be bent.
> I once took a young man in a wheelchair to 6 Flags -- he went to the
> head of the line, but for a different reason: he needed someone to lift
> him from the chair into the ride and back. The regular entrance wasn't
> set up for that, and the wheelchair would have been an obstacle to
> I dunno, I guess I'm saying there ARE circumstances where special
> treatment is necessary, but it shouldn't be taken lightly -- my first
> response would always be to see whether I could think of ways to manage
> things myself before asking for special help -- most of the time I CAN.
> And I feel good about myself, too.
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> Natalie A. Sera, with all her ducks in a row!
> Type Weird, pumping!
> mailto:email @ redacted
> ._c- ._c- ._c- ._c- ._c- ._c- ._c- ._c-._c- ._c- ._(` ._c- ._c-
> Can YOU find the ugly duckling? (Hint: it ain't the pumperduck!)
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